Meditations on Fear: “Love is but a song to sing”

Meditations on Fear: “Love is but a song to sing”

March 22nd, 2020 | Posted in Art & Society

By Dave Brown March 14, 2020

[Editors Note: Dave Brown is my friend of nearly 50 years, a retired minister whom I call one the of the last liberal preachers, and known to the American Blues music community as Rev. Dave. He is a past contributor to Futurist.com and and in one of the post 9/11 World Future Society events in Washington DC he and I presented a well-attended session called “Will Religion be the Death of Us.” The article below appeared in a shorter edited version in the Seattle Times on March 21, 2020. It stuck me when he sent it to me that living with, in and through fear must be one of the most enduring of all human experiences throughout our long evolution. Though I am not religious in the way Rev. Dave is, his meditation helped me think through my own fear in this time. Perhaps it will for you as well.]

It was 1966 when, after taking the bus from New Jersey to the Port Authority bus terminal and the 1-train downtown, I found myself at the Café au go go, the legendary subterranean club on Bleeker Street. The YOUNGBLOODS was the band on stage that night and I clearly remember one song from that set. The song was “Get Together”. It would appear on the band’s first album that would be released early in 1967. It would be re-released as a single in 1969, become a hit and an anthem that still echoes today. Chet Powers wrote the song with the memorable chorus, “Come on People, now, smile on your brother, everybody get together, try to love one another right now” The chorus became an anthem, lots of people new it then and now. But that night in Café au go go it was the opening line that caught my attention and grabs my attention today, “Love is but a song to sing, fears the way we die.”

“Love is but a song to sing, fear’s the way we die.” The contrast between love and fear caught hold of my late teenage imagination. I was a young Christian drawn to the counterculture that found a home in the Greenwich Village of the late sixties, where I would eventually live. I knew that love was more than just a song to sing. And I knew that fear could be the way we die. There was love all around me. And there was fear. Fear due to the war, polarization and the violence we experienced in the struggle for Civil Rights. Malcom X was assassinated in 1965, the year before I heard that song. The year after the song was released Bobby Kennedy and Martin Luther King would be assassinated followed by, the year after the song was re-released, the death of 5 students on the campus of Kent State University. In the late sixties there was flower power and love and there was a lot to be afraid of. I came of age in a world where you navigated the tension between love and fear.

“Love is but a song to sing, fears the way we die.” In the last few weeks, the Coronavirus has laid the tension between love and fear at our doorsteps. All of a sudden, we find ourselves living in a time of a widespread life-threatening disease. The disease has disrupted every part of our life. How will we balance love and fear? The answer is, of course, to be wise, safe and not let fear seize the day and our hearts. Yet as obvious as the answer is, living into the reality it suggests is not easy. There is a lot of fear out there and many legitimate reasons for that fear. Which brings me to the question: How do we wrestle with, and live with fear? It is an ancient question. Those of us who identify in one way or another with the Christian tradition may recognize that it is a question central to the teaching of Jesus. In the Christian sacred texts, the role of fear was addressed again and again by Jesus.

The phrase “Fear Not” is one of the most common phrases in the Bible. I admit I have not counted myself, but I’ve read that some form of that phrase appears more than 350 times. In the Christian tradition the warning not to be afraid is a constant theme.

It’s there in the beginning when the angel that announces Jesus’ birth tells Mary, “Do not be afraid ”. It’s there near the end when the women go to the tomb on the third day an angel tells the women who go to the tomb “Do not be afraid ”.

The consistent message to not be afraid reminds us how real fear can be in human life. There would be no need to say again and again, “Do not be afraid” if fear was not a regular companion on many a life journey. Fear is real. If it’s: fear that something or someone could hurt us, fear that harm will come close to someone we love, fear for the future of the planet or the quiet intimate fear that somehow we aren’t good enough, loveable enough, smart enough. Fear is real.

The Bible in general and the Christian texts in particular tells those who take the text seriously not to be afraid. It is one teaching most readers fail to heed. Fear is a real part of most lives.

The reality of fear is a more present reality to many of us this March of 2020 as the coronavirus changes reality and threatens the health of friends and loved ones. Is our fear the opposite of faith and love? Is it the way we die?

The virus is serious, it is something that we should be afraid of, something that we need to take seriously. In the Christian texts Jesus never says there is nothing to be afraid of.

There were and are realities any wise person should fear. He teaches us not to give in to fear, to let fear be our primary emotion. Jesus’ words do not ask us to deny the dangers that confront us and make us afraid but, rather, to acknowledge those fearsome things and to be wise when dealing with them without letting our fear dominate our lives. In a time of pandemic, we are invited to hold on to love and have faith which doesn’t mean denying fear but, rather, living in a way that deals wisely with the things that rightly make us afraid.

Dr. King expresses this well. He had a lot to be afraid of, yet he never let fear have the last word and dominate his life. He said this, “Normal fear protects us; abnormal fear paralysis us. Normal fear motivates us to improve our individual and collective welfare; abnormal fear constantly poisons and distorts our inner lives. Our problem is not to be rid of fear but, rather to harness and master it.”

The fear Jesus spoke to was, I believe, what MLK called “abnormal fear” Fear that is greater than love, fear that paralysis us and shuts us down. Abnormal fear is, in the words of the song, “the way we die”. It destroys community and poisons our lives.

As we face the challenges, we face in spring 2020 we do well to be honest with our fears and know they are real. There are things to be afraid of, we need to be cautious and smart. Yet, I believe, the path of faith is a path that will not allow fear to be the way we die. It is a path we walk holding love and fear together so, in Kings words, we will not allow our fear to grow and poison and distort out lives.

The familiar anthem that I heard in Café au go go so many years ago speaks today echoing Jesus words, “Do not be afraid” reminding us to always hold love and fear together and to “smile on our brothers and sisters as we try and love one another right now.”

Rev. Dave Brown March 14, 2020

The quote from Dr. King is from his sermon, Antidotes for Fear found in the book Strength to Love

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1 Comment

  1. kellie   |   Mar 23, 2020

    Excellent read! Thanks for sharing the wisdom.

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